Piss 101 - The Basics

We get a lot of guys surfing our the website, not because they are really into piss, but rather because they are curious. For most of us guys really into piss, our active participation in piss sex started slowly. Others, knew piss was their thing from early on. If you are new to watersports, then you probably need to know some basics.

What is Watersports?

Watersports (also known as Piss Play, Piss Sex or Golden Showers) is any form of sex play that involves piss.

There are many forms of Gay Piss Play, including:

• Pissing on yourself.
• Pissing on someone.
• Getting Pissed on by someone.
• Pissing in someone's mouth.
• Tasting Piss - Allowing piss in your mouth but now swallowing, either your own or someone else's.
• Drinking Piss - either straight from the tap (from your partners' cock) or from a container.
• Pissing in someone's ass.
• Receiving piss up the ass, either directly from a cock or via an enama tube.
• Piss Fucking - Engaging in anal sex while the submissive partner has a load of piss up his ass.
• Piss Pig Orgy - Engaging in group piss play.

Why do guys get off on Piss Play?

There's lots of different opinions about this and is different from person-to-person. The truth is that each person has a combination of reasons why they are attracted to piss sex.

• Fun and Adventure. When you think of it, most forms of piss play are safe from a health perspective, yet urination is our society is packed with all sort of taboo. All this repressed energy just make the practice of breaking the taboo more fun. As we mature as gay men, we often seek new adventure, and for many, the piss frontier is it!

• Early sexual awareness for many often involved piss, and that still sparks excitement in us as adults. As Sigmund Freud pointed out, youngsters often experience a form a pleasure when peeing. They learn they can control the flow, and either withhold temporarily or spread out their pee. And while most psychologists do not hold much credence with Freud's theory of psycho/sexual fixation, many of us do have pleasurable memories associated with pissing when we were very young. As we grown, experiences like pissing with other guys at camp outs or in locker rooms all gets tossed together in our psyche. I still get hardons when pissing on a tree in the woods.

• Domination / Degradation. Pissing on someone can be a form of sexual domination or the fulfillment of one's own sexual desires for gratification. The motivations for this behavior can be very complex and often stems from experiences we've had when young. Piss domination not only includes pissing on / in someone else, but may also involve controlling when the submissive can piss. As a novice to pissplay, you may find getting involved with a partner who is motivated by domination or degradation to be challenging. If you do not feel that these are your are primarily motavatations, you may want seek out partners who are more motivated by fun and adventure. But if this is your thing, then go for it!

While most people play naked, in piss specific fetish wear, or semi-clothed, a fairly common form of piss play involves clothing - either pissing in your own clothes, pissing one someone else who is clothed, or getting pissed on while clothed. Consider how clothing changes when pissed on, in terms of weight, temperature, and smell, both as it gets wet and as it dries. For many people, these sensations push their sexual excitement on-button.

One very active sub-group of pissers are guys who love to piss in their blue jeans. Just go onto YouTube, and you can find hundreds of videos of guys pissing in their jeans. There is also a significant number of men who wear and piss in diapers, often in private or under their work clothes. You won't usually see these guys out at a piss pig orgy.

Then of course there is a whole gay sub-culture of guys who enjoy wearing piss friendly rubber, latex, or neoprene, all of which can be collectively referred to as Gummi wear. When I first started attending piss orgies, I used to wear leather, but leather is not particularly piss-friendly. It can be hard to clean and dries slowly. So, I started stocking up on Gummi wear. Also, when you go out to bars, it sends out the message that your like to get wet.

Sexual Health

If you are a novice to piss play and concern about safe sex practices, then you might be surprised to learn that most piss play is relatively safe. Please check out my article on piss health factors which goes into this subject in more detail. You should be aware though that as piss play is considered an extreme sexual practice, a lot of the guys who get into it are also engaged in other extreme behavior, which may include barebacking and drug use. So prepare yourself for how you want to respond in any sexual situations that are new to you. Ultimately, you, not your partner, is responsible for maintaining your own boundaries and sex health.

Are You Ready?

Pushing boundaries can be fun. To get started with piss play, you don't have to go to a piss pig orgy. Try a little solo time. Piss on yourself in the shower. Then share a shower with a willing friend. Try the taste. Go to a sleaze bar and see if that gets you hot. There's all sort of ways to start. Have fun and ask any questions you might have in the New to Watersports Forum.